5. Actually use your homespace and workspace.
Only one thing now remains: time in the saddle. The more time you spend doing only homey things in your homespace and only worky things in your workspace, the more you\’ll develop the state-dependent memory that will trigger the associations you want in either place. When you enter your homespace, you\’ll automatically relax, effortlessly dropping effort and negative office juju. (If the urge to think or talk about work arises, note it, then picture it evaporating like steam.) And when it\’s time to work, the genuine R&R you\’ve enjoyed will help everything you do feel more like flow.
6. Watch the Zen master in you emerge.
If you don\’t find this exercise helpful, you\’re certainly free to keep day-trading while nursing your twins, or stacking paperwork on every surface in your home, including the oven racks. But I think if you experiment with the methods I\’ve described, you\’ll come to appreciate them. One definition of Zen is simply \”doing one thing at a time\”—which goes a long way toward explaining why Zen masters look so calm and live so long. I want you to love going to work, and to love being home. Just not at the same time.